January 18
Four years ago today, after 91 years of life, my Grandfather passed from life on earth to life in eternity. I remember the phone call, my dad’s reaction to the news, and the tears and sadness that followed. My heart ached, knowing that he was gone, and yet there was a celebration of life, as he had lived a full life and had succeeded in so many things.
Now four years ago, I live in his house, and daily am reminded that he is not here. The past few days, and especially today, as I was reflecting on the anniversary of his death, my heart had a different ache. I wish I had known him. I wish I had had the opportunity to build a relationship with him, like I have with Grandma. I wish I had spent time with him, and made memories that would last forever. As these thoughts rushed through my mind, there was a twinge of regret. But then, I realized the opportunity I have now, to get to know my Grandmother, to build a relationship, and make memories that I will never forget. And not only with my Grandmother, but with all those around me. I have the opportunity to cherish each moment, and make it one that counts- both now and for eternity!
…and so, although I was unsure how to bring the subject up to my Grandmother, I decided to make sure she knew that I loved her, and that I cherished the relationship I have with her! Yesterday, I stopped on my way back here, and got her Chocolate Covered Pretzels-She loved them! And this evening, I stopped to get her flowers. As I walked through the floral department, I realized that throughout the day, the picture of the perfect bouquet had formed in my mind- and I would settle for nothing less! I walked through the whole department, and looked at every arrangement..until at last, I found the perfect one! As soon as I gave it to her, her eyes lit up, and I knew she loved it. She immediately displayed it in the living room- and commented on it repeatedly throughout the evening. And each time, I was reminded just how incredible an opportunity I have… and each time, I cherished the moments I have with her little more.